Gift Receiving Etiquette
Author: Michael Taylor
In every culture around the world, gift giving is an integral part of celebrating holidays, special events, and accomplishments. And although traditional gifts most certainly vary from one location to another, the meaning is the same: presents are a universal way of both creating and maintaining personal relationships. Many people claim to derive just as much joy with the giving of presents as with the receiving. But if you, as the receiver, meet that gift with a cold reception, it's just bad manners. Here are some tips, since December is the biggest gift-giving month, on how to graciously and appropriately receive gifts.
1. Let the sender know as soon as possible when you have received a mailed gift.
You don't have to be too formal here, but when you receive a mailed gift you should always let the sender know by phone or by email. This is important because it not only lets the sender know that the item has arrived safely by mail, but also that you appreciate the gesture and it did not go unnoticed (which is important for the gift giver to know if he or she is not there in person with you).
2. Be sensitive to opening gifts in front of others.
In America, we are accustomed to opening gifts in front of others. Oftentimes birthday parties, Christmas celebrations, and baby showers all center around the opening of gifts. But you should be sensitive to when and where you open presents. If you are hosting a party and only one guest among many brings you a gift, just set it aside and cheerfully let the guest know you will look forward to opening it later. Then make sure to write a thank you note to the guest the next day.
3. Communicate gratitude through your body language.
Always receive a gift, no matter how large or small, with a smile on your face. Accept the gift with both hands, and make eye contact with the giver. Say "thank you" as you accept the gift, before you even open it. If the gift is smaller than what you expected (socks instead of an iPod, for example) don't act disappointed. Again, just smile and say thank you.
4. Be sensitive to other people's differences.
We tend to often think of certain items as typical presents for women: bath items, scented candles, jewelry and accessories. Others, we tend to think of as typical presents for men: ties, coffee mugs, electronic gadgets, and clothing. If someone gives you a gift that completely defies your perception of normalcy, don't act offended or shocked. Just smile and say thank you (you'll notice that this is the bottom line in gift receiving!). You are not obligated to wear a hideous snowman hat from your aunt. But you are obligated to thank her for it.
5. Be honest if you don't have a gift for them.
Sometimes the most awkward situation occurs when someone else gives you a gift, and you do not have a gift for him or her. In this case, don't try to back peddle or bluff. Simply be honest and say something to the effect of, "Thank you, this is so kind of you. I did not realize we were planning on exchanging gifts this year."
6. Know the most important rule.
You should always send a brief and sincere thank you note for a gift.
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About the Author
Author: Michael Taylor is a Marketing Manager at TIE SNUG. TIE SNUG eliminates continuous adjusting and makes wearing a tie more comfortable. The right necktie accessories can ensure you look professional and help you stand out for the right reasons. Now you can be confident knowing your tie knot looks great. For more information, please visit http://www.tiesnug.com.
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